Happiness is a matter of Attitude. What constitutes happiness is a debatable issue. But we can be happy if we want to be. Life can be made happy if few basic requirements are fulfilled –
- Some of the most important human values of life should be honored. Cooperation and unity must exist with everyone.
- Jealousy and hatred should not be there.
- There should be peace and security for everyone.
- One should have the freedom to work.
- We should cultivate the idea of brotherhood.
- There should be freedom of thoughts & religion.
Life can be called the general drama of happiness and pain in which pain is more than happiness. If we accept this universal law, we can fill happiness in our life. We have to accept the universe as it is. We must not demand that is impossible. If the whole things will be perfect in one go then happiness will not be as important as it is when it comes after pain. We should try to make the best of the time in which we live. I remember the days before my marriage; I was one of the boring and rude people in my friend circle. After marriage there is a big change in my attitude. I never get upset. There is always a smile on my face. Yes, up and downs are part of our life, but I never got disappointed from it. I just know there is always a sun rise after dark. I believe in present, neither in past nor in future.
“Happiness is like a butterfly; the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder”– Thoreau
I believe in learning and growing. We can learn from even a single moment of life. When anything goes wrong we always think – Why it always happens to me? Always remember, there is not a single person whose life is going smooth. Problems are the part of human life. Although it depends on us how we take care of the situation. Everybody has his own style to deal with the different situations and ideal one is to handle it with calm and patience as all we all know every problem has its solutions.
Few tips to get happiness when you are in trouble –
- Listen to Music.
- Share your problems with your loved ones.
- Never disappoint yourself.
- Do something crazy that will refresh your mood.
- Go for outing with friends.
- Try to understand people.
- Don’t take yourself so seriously.
- Tolerate your own mistake.
- Forgive others & yourself.
- Keep life Simple.
- The secret of life is to dare, as we know “Dar ke aage jeet hai”.
Hi Amit,
Nice post!! I like Quote “Dar ke aage jeet hai”. This gives a message to do new things in the world that are beneficial for me and others. We should have always happy because Happiness gives idea and also every people like them. Thanks for sharing nice post!!
Thanks Ravi for your insight. We should always keep smile on your face. Smile make us attractive and changes our mood. It also relieves stress. You can act as a medicine for others by just giving a smile.
Happiness matters a lot in everyone’s life. As we know problems goes after a dark time. We will wait for the good time. Thanks for sharing the tips of being happy.
Dear Amit,
excellent post and very beautiful thoughts on your mind and you discuss a very important part of life. Happiness and you share personal life experience it’s ultimate . You have shared tips for get happiness it’s good
Thanks for sharing ….
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staying Happy is the best thing. I think we should smile in every situation because when we smile then the half of our problems get shorted out but if you get down then problems will get doubled. Nice post Amit.
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Hi Amit,
I love this post and topic and believe everyone should be happy. To me it starts with just rising out of bed every day. I mean it could be our last day right! How do you plan on going through the day if you knew it was your last? Stop worrying about things that aren’t important and be happy that you have the things that you do and the people in your life.
I know you’ve mentioned so many other really good suggestions here Amit but that for me is reason enough.
~Adrienne
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Thanks Amit for this beautiful post. Today everyone is too busy in their work that they did not have a single minute to smile. We should spend at least 10 minutes in a day with fun and excitement.
Nice topic You have shared amit!
Really Happiness and sadness both are apart of our life. So we should enjoy both don’t afraid the sadness. But we should try to make happy life. Your article is very helpful to making life very happiness.
Your post, Happiness – A Part of Life | Meet Up Life, is really well written and insightful. Glad I found your website, warm regards!
Hi Amit
I feel happiness is a state of mind.I have seen many situations where I try to be happy but I couldn’t because mind does not allow it to happen. We need to practice spirituality apart from your tips to lead a true happy life.
Thanks for sharing this great post.
Sapna
I completely agree with you. And thanks for adding one more tips in my list. Without a true happiness its all vague as a smiling face does not always means happy.
Hi Amit
I am totally agree with your point. Really Happiness is apart of our life. its always come in life of everyone so do not affraid and always enjoy moments of your life because life is a beautiful. Well thanks for counting me.